Today I’ll explain to you the three stages of positivity that can influence your life for the better. I call them the Holy Trinitiy of Positivity and once you’ve read this blogpost, you’ll understand why (I hope, don’t sue me!).
#1. CHANGE = GOOD
Change is made by stepping out of your comfort zone. Joining the free world and doing what you’ve always wanted to do. That sounds good, right? Well, if you’re scared of leaving your comfort zone, you must make yourself understand what you’ll gain from it by staying in it and I can already tell you the answer to that question:
The only thing you’ll create slowly but surely, is regret. You have been given a life, my friend. LIVE IT. Do the things you need to do, but also dare yourself to take a step into the unknown. Make sure to vibrate higher every single day you’re above ground. Don’t settle for less and live up to your potential. I, 100% believe, you can achieve anything you want in life, but it’s all up to you.
The day you let go of fear and instead embrace understanding, is the day you begin to live.
— christian delgrosso (@christiand) April 26, 2018
#2. OVERCOME LIKE A BOSS
The moment you step out of your comfort zone and you’re actually starting with what you’ve always wanted to do, is a very weird one. Let me break it down for you.
With change comes this weird feeling that makes you sad, uncertain, sick. It almost brings you to the depression state but not really. When that happens to you, you know you’re about to enter a new stage in life. Your mind and body has to adapt to this new lifestyle. The lifestyle of success, greatness and achievements. No more wasting time wishing. Your mind and body know that they are no longer in control, but YOU are. Now, I’m not gonna leave you hanging here, you know I always got your back. ”So, how do I overcome this like boss?” I hear you ask me. Let me tell you.
Visualize your dreams and goals. This can either be done by writing it down on your laptop or pc or you keep it old school like me and put it on a piece of paper or a notebook. Make a sketch or whatever’s necessary to see it from a different perspective. By visualizing it, you are in the begin stages of turning it into reality. Your focus and energy goes to what needs to be done instead of worrying about all sort’s of things that can go wrong or whatever. It’s a process that’s similar to getting a tattoo and it goes something like this:
Step 1: You have a design in mind that you’d like to get tattooed onto your skin.
Step 2: You choose an artist that is specialized in it and you discuss with him/her your ideas and he or she will tell you what the possibilities are.
Step 3: The artist has made a sketch and you’ll check it out if it’s indeed something you had in mind, or maybe it needs some changes. After some back and forth, you guys come to a final conclusion.
Step 4: Before getting tattooed, the artist shows you the final design, you’re ready to get inked and BOOM after some minutes or hours you got that very thing, that was once a thought, forever on your skin.
Look around you. Look at the clothes you’re wearing, the screen you’re looking at. Everything you see, was once a thought… An idea brought to life. That’s how powerful your mind is.
Every time doubt kicks in, you must fight back. Remember my very first blog post, where I wrote about you being a true fighter? Keep that in mind. Don’t be scared to fail, because failure teaches you things you don’t learn from success. We must make mistakes in order to grow. We’ve all been there. You are not the first to experience it and you will definitely not be the last.
#3. POSITIVITY OVER NEGATIVITY: CREATE YOUR OWN REALITY
To make The Holy Trinity complete, you must know that, everyday, you create your own reality by the way you think, what you do, what you say and so on.
Being negative creates a negative reality. Being positive, creates a positive reality. That doesn’t mean that once you choose to be positive, your life is going to be perfect, and you’ll become invisible to anything that’s negative. No. You’ll become stronger and wiser which makes it impossible for negativity to come and ruin your life. You’ll learn how to deal with disappointments and sadness because you rely on the good a.k.a positivity.
Sometimes people ask me: ”Yeah, well, how can I stay positive when shit like (fill in the blanks) happens?”. My response to them is: ”Well, what is negativity going to do you for you then?”.
Once you truly understand the power between these two things that create a balance within us, your life will change for the better. Negativity isn’t always a bad thing. This is still real life and things aren’t always as we say in Dutch: ”Rozengeur en maneschijn.” Literally translated it means: ”Rose smell and moonshine.” LOL!
I don’t know how to translate it properly, so I’m just doing it this way!
Life is short, ladies and gentlemen. You’re worthy and capable of achieving greatness in life. Ask yourself who you are and what you want to become. Be honest to yourself and JUST DO IT!
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