Are you tired of not achieving your dreams and goals? Every year you confront yourself with the same old stuff that you promised yourself achieving for so many years, yet here you are having achieved 0% of it? Do you finally want to conquer the world and experience that euphoric feeling? Does this intro start to sound like I’m trying to sell you something? Are there aliens at Area-51? Wait, where was I going with this? Oh yes, LET’S GET SHIT DONE, BABY!
It’s almost 12am as I’m writing this. Tomorrow will be a busy day at work and I probably should’ve already been asleep. But aye, 𝖜𝖍𝖊𝖓 𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖚 𝖌𝖊𝖙𝖘 𝖎𝖓𝖘𝖕𝖎𝖗𝖊𝖉, 𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖚 𝖌𝖔𝖙𝖘 𝖙𝖔 𝖉𝖔 𝖘𝖔𝖒𝖊𝖙𝖍𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝖜𝖎𝖙𝖍 𝖎𝖙, right!?
And the weirdest part is that I honestly have no clue why every time I finish watching a horror movie, I’m inspired to write something positive for my blog, lol.
It’s actually been a while since I’ve written something on my blog, simply because there were so many topics I wanted to discuss, yet it just didn’t inspire me enough…
But then, it hit me… ･ﾟ 🎀 𝒢𝑒𝓉𝓉𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝒮𝒽𝒾𝓉 𝒟❁𝓃𝑒 🎀 ﾟ･ Actually a very interesting topic to discuss if I do say so myself. I mean, we live in a time where almost errbody’s grinding and werking, twerking, you name it!
But what about those who want to grind, but just don’t know how to get inspired enough to actually dew it?
Well, for that my friends, I, Dounia Elisabeth II MHarthi have found the answer.
See, in order to actually achieve something, it all starts with the way we communicate….. to ourselves.
Think about it. We have always been told on how to communicate to others, to the world. But how about teaching us the ways of communicating to ourselves? Isn’t that just as important? Maybe even more important!?
We are with ourselves 24/7. So it’s logical to think that the way we speak to ourselves is VERY CRUCIAL – up until a point where it will dictate on what turn our lives will take, for the better or worse.
It’s a gardening way of life
To give you an example:
If you constantly tell yourself you can’t, you won’t. If you tell yourself you can, you will. Now I swear I did not took this quote from Pinterest. I took it from Tumblr. But my point is, be aware of what you’re feeding your mind with.
You will never feel beautiful, if you always tell yourself you look ugly. You always need to ask yourself one question: ”What kind of seed do I want to plant in my brain?”
Make sure that the words you speak to yourself are kind and nourishing.
Just do it…. tomorrow?
Now let’s go back to the ”getting shit done” part of this blog post. The way you formulate your dreams and goals on a piece of paper is also veeerrrryy important.
I mean, remember that seed I was talking about earlier? The moment you start writing down your goals, is the moment you plant that seed. To give you some perspective:
If you’ve always started your list with: GOALS!! Try: To Do in 2019! instead.
See, writing ”Goals” is as if you’re saying: Things I want to get done, some day in life.
Be precise, but not too much. Unless you can look into the future of course…
Also a very important thing to know, is to forget about the planning part of life. You can only plan so much, and believe me, things will go the way they should, regardless of how many plans you make and how ”well” prepared you are. Because that’s just how life works.
The only three steps that are important are:
- Put on a list what you believe you can achieve in a year
- plant that seed into your brain
- water it every single time
You can go with the flow, live your life and do your thing. But remind yourself what you’ve promised yourself of doing and or achieving for this year and be honest. Because once you play games, you need to realize that you’ll only be playing yourself.
Don’t let certain thoughts stop you such as: It’s ALREADY August, lets just start on January 1st 2020. Nah homie, we ain’t about that life.
If you want to change, you gotta do it right here, right now.
Self-love is key hunniii
This mindset that I’m trying to explain is not a: ”Speak into the Universe and you will receive” mentality. Because we all know how I think about that.. Nope, this is genuinely working hard for what you want to achieve and being your own support system.
Prove yourself you can do it, instead of proving someone on the other side of the screen who doesn’t give two shits about you. – Moi
This, ladies and gentlemen, is also self-care and self-love. Because once you do this, you will notice what kind of a positive impact you will have on your own life regarding the negative feedback you may receive from outside forces.
I actually caught myself just now by accident, on how much power my words actually have had on my life. Because I have always been that person who wrote down goals and dreams and hopes and desires and what not. Yet, nothing happened, ever. Until I started to change the way I formulated certain things. And all I did after that was taking an extra look at it, planted that seed, closed my notebook and never took a look at it, until now.
Just to name an example: I saw that on december 2018 I wrote that in 2019 I wanted to learn at least 1 new language besides Dutch and English. And guess what, I’ve been studying German for quite some time now.
It’s the seed, ladies and gents. I’m telling you!! It works. No universe needed, just some water, dirt and discpline. and some love ofcurz.
What I want for you, the person reading this, is to achieve the things you’ve always wanted to achieve. Because I genuinely believe you can.
I want for you to plant that seed, so that you and I together can smoke that herb, and taste the sweetness of life.